What the F%^@?

Okay!!! So today is my ex b-day and he is calling me over and over. And not just a friendly hey what's up but a freaking he wants to scream and yell and argue!!! I mean don't get me wrong I truly care about my ex but in my mind I am thinking shouldn't we move on from each other. I mean why keep in touch. I have known him for like 7 years. We were good friends once. But I am beginning to think that we can't carry out friendship with the way our situation is. Not b/c of me but b/v every phone call he wants to inquire about my love and sex life. In my mind I am thinking; it's none of you freaking business but he doesnt get it. I think that he feels he has say over who I hang out with and who I spend my time with. He needs to understand that we are no longer together. It's like I gave him a chance and he chose to ignore me at that time so why play games and go back and forth? It's all bull crap to me. I love him with all my heart but I know it's time to move on. The thing that he doesn't realize is that he needs to change for the better in order for us to work out. At this moment all he careas about is himself. He needs to take care of house and home. He just doesn't get that. Either way I still wish him a Happy 26th and hope he gets whatever he wants out of life. I do miss him but life is too short to play games.